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    Festive as Fuck

    I am not a holiday hoorah kind of person. In fact, hating December has always come easy for me. I’m a natural at it, you could say. However, once I left Texas I no longer really had a good reason for hating all things “Christmas”. Side note: I just learned something about December 25th, and I am still gobsmacked over the discovery. Well, not so much as a discovery as Gregg-with-2-g’s divulging some “well known” information on how Christmas became Christmas. That’s for another post that I will probably never write. lol. But I blame a group of people for putting us all thru an annual torture, also known as…

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    Pancakes vs. French Toast

    I’ve recently added a monthly poll to my site. You do have to be a member to vote, so all members, please vote! I mix it up between serious inquiries (such as “Fantasy or Mutual” or “What Would You Prefer to See More Of”) and fun (such as, “Pancakes vs. French Toast” or “Twizzlers vs. Red Vines”). We are only nine days into this months poll and I am gobsmacked to see that Pancakes are winning! Who are you people? No, french toast. That is where it is at! It is everything good! Gah. Pancakes. Pfft!

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    Lingerie and Socks!

    Nicster, I have known you for the better part of 16 years, and you have always been a constant supporter of all things. Thank you for always thinking of me when it comes to the holidays and birthdays. We might not talk as often as we once did, but you have always been a favorite, and one that I am grateful to know. It might surprise you to know that I have already worn the lingerie, but not the socks. Soon though, because they’re bright and fun! I will utilize the cookbook often and cannot wait to make the first dish!

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    Gifts to Honor our Girl

    The amount of support and love that I have been shown, regarding the news of our favorite golden, continues to amaze me. I’ve also received gifts to honor our girl. I wasn’t sure if I was going to share them here, but truthfully, she was such a huge part of the online community, and I feel that each gift should be acknowledged. I appreciate them all. Not just the thought, but the kindness shown. Thank you. Amber – As soon as I shared Abby’s diagnosis, you had a shirt custom made for me, and it makes me smile each time I see it, and the kindness warms my heart. Thank…

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    VNALive Shows

    After much consideration, I have decided to no longer host member cam shows. This was not an easy decision for me, but I feel that after 17 years of doing weekly shows, it is time to refocus and try new ventures.  I have come to cherish the friendships forged during those hours, and I will forever be grateful to those of you that chose to spend an hour of your week with me. Some of you joined me weekly, while others joined every so often. Please know that I appreciate the loyalty and support.  I am kicking around the idea of doing an hour every month, or so, maybe on…

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    Archived Content

    In September of 2021, I chose to separate from a network, becoming 100% independent. That meant I had to rebuild my website from the ground up, so to speak, reloading 17 years worth of content. I decided to launch the new site with just 2 years worth of material while integrated the archives back into the fold. This took me over 2 years to complete- adding archives several times a week, sometimes daily for holiday months.  I am excited to announce that the last archive was uploaded on November 22nd, completing this 2 year project!  My site has over 16 years worth of smut, and I continue to actively update…

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    Thank You

    I have been amazed, but not surprised, by all the love shown to Abby, the Golden. I finally responded to all of the messages on my previous post, and wanted to say “Thank you”. Thank you for caring; for taking the time to reach out over the last couple months. Thank you for loving our favorite golden. She was easy to love.

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    Abby the Golden: Until the Next Forever

    Abigail. Abs of Gail. Abby. Abbycadabra. Abby Labby Do Dah. Our Favorite Golden. My Girl. Our Kid. Unbeknownst to her, she was internet famous and loved worldwide. As most of you know, because you’ve checked on her almost daily, in July she started choking when she would eat. Not all the time, but enough that we were concerned. A call to her doctor advised us to call around because they couldn’t get her in, and it sounded like an emergency. We called another vet and were able to get in the next morning. They admitted her into their hospital, thinking she had pneumonia and would need to keep her for…

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    Another Abby Update

    She has been dubbed “Our Million Dollar Kid”, but no matter the added costs, we have not hesitated to give her the best care possible. She had another round of chemo Thursday. A couple days prior, we noticed a large lump on her neck and her gums had dark spots all over them; because of that they took x-rays just to ensure she is responding to chemo. Her X-rays look better than expected. The mass has shrunk and she has no fluid on her lungs. The tumor on her neck is an engorged lymph-node that shows she’s not going into remission unfortunately, but it’s nothing unexpected with as severe as…

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    A Good Day, Indeed

    Today is quite special, as they all are, but this one in particular is one that I especially appreciate. He is not one to make a fuss about himself, or even his big day, but I think he more than deserves a shout out. Stephen, happy anniversary on the date of your birth! Today is every reason to celebrate with tea and cake! Lots of cake. I hope that no matter what, you do something that makes you smile today, and that you celebrate all week long, with cake! In fact, today should be celebrated all month long, by eating all the cake! So much cake! But seriously, Stephen, I…