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    It’s a Happy Day

    What a happy day for most of us in the United States of America! It was a vote that was close, but those in the gay community now have marriage equality. This is something, in my opinion, that should have been their right decades ago. We are in a society that still has the “good ol’boy” mentality and they’re finally starting to lose. It is infuriating that so many politicians feel that their “religious” beliefs are golden and they have a right to force their opinions on others. It’s those who have taken the hypocritical oath and are now telling us how to behave in the bedroom, while they have…

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    I’m That Person. ACK!

    I’m on week three of Steamate issues, and I have become that performer who is clearly not happy. I can’t even fake a smile without sounding pissed off. lol. I contacted the owner, via phone, and spent 20 minutes discussing the issue. He said there’s clearly a problem, but he’s not aware of the site having issues. Um. Right. He had me email the lady who suspends performers on a whim. Great. She LOVES me. I sent her an email with detailed information on what’s going on, all he tests I’ve run and what my ISP provider has done. For two weeks the tests from my ISP provider and my in house…

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    I Dropped the Ball

    When I first started this venture, nine years ago, I kept to myself, gave no personal information, other than how my day was going. Over time I started getting comfortable with being a little more open to accepting you guys into my world. It wasn’t so much me, as it was you. I never imagined getting to know you outside of emails or during my weekly cam shows. There are many of you that I call “friend” and most who I really, truly care about. Usually. lol. So, when Nicster insisted on an Amazon site, I finally gave in and had one listed, but never advertised. I have always made…

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    Amazing!

    It’s no secret that I’ve had a ton of tech issues and this is the beginning of week three, which gives me nothing to look forward to. But, with that said, seeing you all tonight for the VNA show really brightened my spirit. So, thank you! You all have no idea how much you add to my world, whether I’m having a good week, or a terrible three. When I’m all about “happy” you guys intensify my mood and when I’m grumpy, you give me reason to smile and before I know it, I’m not near as annoyed, even when I want to be. lol.

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    A Tentative Plan

    The Tuesday night member’s show only lasted thirty minutes, before my audio turned into R2D2 sounds, and then my internet dropped. I don’t know what caused the audio to do that and I have a hard time believing it was the internet, but since I’ve never had that issue, I put it all on them. I was optimistic that the internet would be addressed and resolved by tonight, but I was wrong. I’ve now turned into a skeptic. The one good thing that came out of today was that I had the foresight to cancel tonight’s show because I would have done a 55 minute show, getting kicked offline with…

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    It’s Fixed.

    For two weeks my internet has been unstable. Last week it wasn’t noticeable except I had no traffic in my cam room. After a few days of wondering what is going on, I started running different tests, showing that something was definitely wrong. Monday, after 7 days, I contacted the good ol’ boy that owns the internet company. Devil asked me to be nice. Pfft. I am being nice. He had no response. I sent him a couple text messages Tuesday, with pictures of the tests. He responded to tell me he would look into it. By 9p that night I hadn’t heard from him so I sent him more…

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    Trying Cam Cuties, Once Again

    A few months ago I signed up for a new cam site and only gave them a few days of my attention. It’s different from what I’m used to on Streamate, and I’ve grown attached to having company through my site, which has kept me loyal to the one cam site. However, I really need to give new changes a chance. After the last eight days of having issues, with no resolution in sight, I’ve decided it’s my fault for waiting it out, hoping for the best. My plan is to split my time between Cam Cuties, which is now named Flirt4Free, just to confuse the masses, and Streamate. I…

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    Fuck You, Universe!

    OMFG! I am having a terrible eight days and I don’t know why! It’s not even localized to one area of problems, but spread out all over the fucking board! From slow “data transfer” between my computer and Streamate (going on 8 days) to shotty fucking internet services (both of them, due to mother fucking Bill, the tropical storm, not “my fella”) to audio issues without warning and everything in between. I don’t know what to do. I’ve had the internet guy look into it and he has found no problems. I’ve emailed SM and they responded just as I expected them to. It was an auto-response asking if I’ve…

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    This Week is Very Hateful!

    From new computers, to dealing with shotty internet companies, to headaches and no traffic on Streamate, this week hates me! Although, the no-traffic is most likely due to having terrible internet service, but I like to share the blame with them, since they are a bunch of (close your eyeballs Hedo) cunts. I’m learning how to not hate Apple, and that’s been a struggle all in itself. From learning new software to having audio problems and trying to figure out where my pictures go when I save them, it’s been a cluster fuck of frustrations. Let me start this next statement with an apology to Lefty. I suggest you stop…