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    Another Year in the Rear View Mirror

    It’s easy to get caught up in the day to day life cycle, and to look forward to the next weekends, or the next trip. It’s natural to long for retirement. I’m guilty of it. We all are. Here we are on the last day of 2022, which seemed so far away in 2000, or even in 2010. It’s crazy to look back in the rear view mirror and relive experiences. Some good. Some not so good. But, life. Life is like that. My hope for you, for all of us really, is that when you glance back at 2022 you smile and realize you survived another year of trials…

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    Happy Holidays to Your Merry Christmas!

    Welp, here we are, once again; it’s the holidays. For some, it is the best time of year, but for others it is a struggle. While I am not in agreement that it is the best time of year, I no longer hate it as I once did. Progress. Healing. Self Worth. Call it what you will. December is a much easier time for me than it once was and for that I am grateful for. A close friend enlightened me earlier in the week that for her, it’s a time of giving and seeing people do good for others, and yes, the christmas lights and all of the traditions.…

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    Member Chats

    If you are new to my site, and have not yet explored the member chats on VNALive, you should! With your membership, you have full access to the entire VNALive network of cam shows. You’ll find well known porn stars and a few amateurs (such as myself) giving you an hour of time each week. Most of us do 4 a month, which gives you hours of FREE shows. I am on every Monday at 11p EST. I start out catching up with the viewers, before having some naked fun and then ending the hour with dessert (or a healthy snack). It’s a fun hour with members, not just from…

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    Voting and Stuff

    I am constantly reminded of the community that has been built around my site; it is truly amazing. It is something I had never imagined when I opened my amateur porn site almost 17 years ago. Monday nights are spent with members on the VNALive network (FREE access available with your membership), with titillating chats, catching up, a lot of laughs and some orgasmic fun. We once had an admin, DrDave, who was the best of the best. He encouraged voting, listed my site periodically throughout (for those that has FREE access via another website) and kept the rift rafts in check. Although, truthfully I have rarely had any issues…

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    A Box of Surprises!

    I have a couple of guys to thank today. First, Nicster: Thank you for always thinking of me at birthday’s, during holidays and throughout the year. I appreciate you! Your gift card was used for a couple tops for cam and, of course, socks. Socks were the first on the list! My second shout out goes to Bobo. You surprised me with a box full of stuff for the whole family! Jaffa Donuts, which both MtnMan and I enjoy, socks and a bag of treats for my girl! She loves them, by the way. Now everytime she hears a bag, she’s convinced it’s Bobo intervening through the universe to give…

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    A Winter Wonderland

    It’s been a beautiful winter in my area of the states. We’ve had several snowstorms, dropping anywhere from 3-15 inches each time, giving us a decent amount of snow. With this being our primary source for moisture, this is good for us. It’s cold. But it’s much needed and it’s beautiful. Along with the snowstorms, we’ve had a lot of pogonip. Pogonip [ pog–uh-nip ] noun. an ice fog that forms in the mountain valleys of the western U.S. It is a beautiful sight to look out and see the countryside with frozen fog particles, from trees, to fence lines and everything else, not buried under snow. We are expecting…

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    December: Daily Uploads

    In September of 2021, I chose to step away from a network based platform and become independent. In doing so, I had to start over, building a site that would be easy to navigate, while also keeping it fresh. When the new site went LIVE, I had 2 years of content uploaded, with archives being added 3 times a week. This turned out to be a great strategy because a lot of the old content became buried and forgotten. Now, it’s front and center, refreshing memories and giving a perspective of time. Close to 17 years of time, to be exact. It’s crazy to think about, but this online world…

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    A Birthday Discovery

    You know how much I love other people’s birthdays, right? I celebrate yours, his, hers and everyone in between. I very happily boast those that I’ve never met before, but whose significant other gave me permission to acknowledge. In which case, I have shouted “Happy Birthday!” to the world wide web, all for someone I have never had the honor of meeting. I have also made some birthday’s my own. By that, I mean, those that HATE their anniversary of their birthday, I have commandeered as mine to celebrate. And then there are those that I have exploited with hosting a huge January party that became an annual shindig for…

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    Friendsgiving

    My favorite day of the year is Thanksgiving; it’s one that was very special when I was growing up. It was never the same, from year to year. It had many changes over the years. In the beginning it was Mom and Granny, in the kitchen baking and cooking up a storm. I didn’t realize how much work it was, until I was much, much older, but they did it with so much passion and excitement. Of course, I was a kid, and the weeks of planning and grocery shopping, all for one meal, might have seemed exciting to me, but not so much to them. But, alas, it’s my…

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    Big Red – It Wets the Whistle

    I have never been a soda pop drinker. It’s the carbonation; I don’t like it. I’ve tried Dr. Pepper, Coke, Pepsi (blech!), Sprite, 7Up, MtnDew and a few others. It doesn’t matter the flavor, I don’t like it. However, I’ve always enjoyed a Big Red, which is available only in the Lone Star State; it’s a Texas “thing”, much like Blue Bell Ice Cream. Anyway, once I moved to Nevada Big Red was no longer an option, but it didn’t much bother me. Like I said, I’m not a soda pop finatic. When I was in Texas last month, I was at my favorite BBQ joint and in the cooler…